I just finished watching the surprisingly delightful "But I'm a Cheerleader," a drama wherein a cheerleader's uptight family, thinking she's a lesbian sends her off to an institution to get de homosized. Among the delights of the artistic bright settings was the surprise cameo of Julie Delpy as a "lipstick lesbian."
And this gorgeous song. The only you tube video has Victorian lesbians in it, so if you're adverse simply cover the screen. Freedom.